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Jeffrey Gitomer Seminar Review

Jeffrey Gitomer is a familiar name in the business book world. He is the author of the top selling book on sales “The Little Red Book of Selling” and the follow up, “The Little Red Book of Sales Answers”. He is back with a new addition to his “Little Book” series with his new book, “Little Green Book of Getting Your Way: How to Speak, Write, Present, Persuade, Influence, and Sell Your Point of View to Others”. Recently, Bizbooktalk.com had the opportunity to attend Jeffrey’s “Little Black Book of Connections” seminar in Renton, Washington.

The seminar drew quite a large audience and the venue was packed with a diverse crowd, ranging from marketing and sales reps to local political candidates. Jeffrey’s presentation was full of advice and tips from his Little Black Book series as well as his Little Red Book series. His seminar included advice for:

  • Networking for success - network more effectively by finding ways to add value first. Find out what is important to the person you are meeting/looking to meet and how you can help them.
  • Using creative marketing methods so that you never miss an opportunity to engage with a customer - your business card, out of office email message and voicemail message are all channels for engaging with current and prospective customers. Make the most of these channels by exercising your creativity. For example, Jeffrey uses a customized coin as his business card.

Jeffrey’s presentation included a fantastic combination of useful information and humor, combined with a very engaging presentation style. If you have an opportunity to attend one of Jeffrey’s seminars in your area, you won’t want to miss the opportunity. His current seminar schedule can be found here.

Writing White Papers by Michael Stelzner

It’s no secret that reaching a technical audience is challenging for marketers in the B2B world. Engineers and scientists are skeptical of the typical copywriting fluff that fills up print ads and websites. This group has little tolerance for emotional ads that are intrusive.

So, how do you court this crowd?

Give them information in a straightforward editorial style and cut the marketing hype. Study after study is showing that key decision makers will not only read a white paper but also pass it on to another colleague. This can bring about something you rarely hear anything about…viral marketing for engineers!

Technical white papers are not a new idea but are being reexamined as a way to communicate product information in an editorial voice and in turn generate leads. Michael Stelzner’s Writing White Papers: How to Capture Readers and Keep Them Engaged offers straightforward tips on how to write a white paper and most importantly ensure that it gets it read.

His chapter regarding interviews is worth a close look, especially for anyone tasked with the difficult challenge of taking the information the product engineers provide and making it into interesting prose. Product specs do not make for easy reading and key decision makers most likely will not have the familiarity or interest for gobbledygook. The skilled white paper writer will know how to blend the conversational and the technical into a decent product.

Stelzner covers the gambit from tricks for research using search engine caches to marketing the white paper itself. Pointers like picking a sticky title and busting through writer’s block are covered as well. A couple samples of white papers close out the book giving the reader a chance to see how everything comes together.

A veteran of freelance technical writing, Stelzner’s blog has multiple tips on how to write for and get along with all clients. Make it part of your morning routine if your in the B2B marketing world.

The Laws of Simplicity: Design, Technology, Business, Life by John Maeda

The 10th Law (‘The One’):
Simplicity is about subtracting from the obvious,
and adding to the meaningful.

It’s tough to escape the complexity we face in our lives. Think about a simple trip to the supermarket. The aisles are filled with store brands, name brands, low fat this, and carb free that. The simple task of finding healthy foods can be overwhelming. While choice in itself is good, too many choices are a hindrance in the decision process. People don’t handle a multitude of options well. If this argument sounds familiar, it is because the theory has been argued in the book The Paradox of Choice: Why Less is More.

Too many choices are just one example of the complexity we face in our lives.

In John Maeda’s book, The Laws of Simplicity (Simplicity: Design, Technology, Business, Life) the theme is simplicity equals sanity. These laws are John’s attempt to simplify the various areas of our lives: from the design of the products we use and the technology devices we love to our work and personal lives. A short and simple read (the book is 100 pages), The Laws of Simplicity is for those who seek refuge from complexity.

The 10th Law, titled ‘The One’ (which you will find at the beginning of this post) sums up the entire set of laws. There are three keys to this law. They are as follows:

Key 1:

More seems like less by simply moving it far, far away.

The design of the Google homepage is an excellent example. The simple search input textbox on their homepage is the doorway to the complex world of the Internet.

Key 2:

Openness simplifies complexity.

Innovation can be a complex process. The old top down model of innovation is increasingly becoming marginalized (that is, if you want to stand out from competition). As we learn in Mavericks at Work, companies that democratize the innovation process hold an advantage. Threadless, an online designer t-shirt company, is a model ‘open’ business. They thrive on their community of loyal fans to create the Threadless t-shirt designs. Fans submit designs they have created, the community votes on which ones they like, and the winning designs are applied to t-shirts for sale. They have taken the complex process of design and opened it up to the user community.

Key 3:

Use less, gain more.

A routine practice of the author helps explain this key: instead of powering his laptop through a wall plug, he uses his battery for stand alone power. This will enable you to be at the mercy of the battery charge – and hopefully inspire you to be more productive with the remaining charge you have left. When your battery has less power available to use, the goal is that you will gain more because you will stay on task and not become a victim to procrastination. Try it next time you are pressed to get something done. It could end up becoming an effective way to be productive.

At the end of the book you’ll find suggested readings for each law he has created. That list contains some best sellers such as The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell and The Wisdom of Crowds by James Surowiecki.

Bottom line: This book would be useful for anyone interested in incorporating simplicity into their lives. It’s one of the few books you can find on this subject. Those with design backgrounds would benefit reading The Laws of Simplicity as well. From time to time, everyone needs the reminder that less is more.

The Laws of Simplicity is a static moment in John Maeda’s effort to master simplicity. He continues this endeavor online at his blog, lawsofsimplicity.com. Check it out for ongoing discussions of simplicity.

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Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die by Chip Heath & Dan Heath

“How do you design an idea that sticks?” – Made to Stick

Think about a moment when you were trying to get an idea across to someone. Think about how you approached the situation, what skills you used, what words you said, and the techniques you used. Were you successful? Was the person responsive to your message? Did your idea ‘stick’ with them?

If your idea didn’t ‘stick’ with your audience then you’ll need to change your technique. You don’t need expensive training or to attend a seminar to learn it either. Your aid can be found in one of the best business books to be released this year – “Made to Stick”.

You face the situation above more than you probably imagine. Every person deals with trying to get a message or idea across to others. If you are a teacher you face the situation weekly. Any time you present new information to students your end goal is to get the idea(s) to resonate with them and not just through rote memorization. You want your information to ‘stick’. You want your students to have “aha!” moments. Moments that change student’s perspectives. In business it’s the same scenario. There are circumstances when you need to ‘sell’ ideas. Bosses, customers, fellow co-workers – there are no boundaries to communicating your message. You need an effective method to craft your ideas. Ministers with gospels to share, historians with facts, cab drivers with advice, the list is endless who can benefit from getting their message to ‘stick’.

“Our interest is how effective ideas are constructed – what makes some ideas to stick and others disappear.” – Made to Stick

After reading the ‘Tipping Point‘ by Malcolm Gladwell two brothers Chip Heath (a Stanford Business school professor) and Dan Heath (a corporate education consultant at Duke) were inspired by Gladwell’s top selling book. Gladwell spoke of the innovations that cause the ‘tipping point’ are due to their ‘stickiness’. The Heath brothers take the extra step to find out what exactly causes ideas to be ‘sticky’. How are they constructed? After extensive research they found that the ideas that ‘stick’ (i.e. Jared from Subway, Urban Legends, JFK’s call to put a man on the moon) all share the following six principles (with a chapter dedicated to each principle):

Simple – Find the core of your idea. This isn’t done by ‘dumbing it down’; this is done by finding what is essential to your message. Strip your idea down to the bare essential.

Unexpected – Get peoples attention. Attract it. Hold it. How? Through surprise. Break people’s ‘guessing machine’ and then repair it.

Concrete – Concrete is memorable. Abstract is not. Make your idea like Velcro. Hook them through concreteness.

Credible – Help people believe. Honesty and trustworthiness should be glorified. Use authorities and anti-authorities. Vivid details boost credibility. If possible, use statistics that generate a human context. Use the “Sinatra Test”.

Emotional – Make people care. Associate ideas with emotions that already exist in others. Bridge the emotional gap between your idea (that they don’t care about – yet) with something they already are emotional or care about. Place emphasis on benefits!

Story – Get people to act. Use stories as stimulation (tell people how to act). Use stories as inspiration (give people energy to act).

There are villains in the whole scheme of creating “sticky” ideas – one of them being The Curse of Knowledge. Once we know something, we find it difficult to recall what it was like not to know. The authors put you in the situation of experiencing the Curse of Knowledge perfectly. Try it yourself. Go get a friend. Think of a song and tap it out with your finger. Ask them to guess the song. To you it seems utterly ridiculous that they can’t guess it. But that’s because you have the song playing in your head. You don’t know what it’s like to be in that situation unless you switch roles. This is the exact situation you face when trying to express your ideas and messages to fresh minds. It’s the Curse of Knowledge. Don’t worry though, the Heath brothers will play superhero and show you how to navigate around this villian.

Each chapter contains ‘clinics’ or helpful case studies to show the principle in use. They are the icing on the cake because examples are bountifully placed throughout the text.

You will find “Made to Stick”in the business section of your local bookstore but don’t let its store location fool you. If you find yourself needing to communicate important ideas and messages – no matter what you do in life - this book will no doubt be a benefit to you. The Heath brothers claim that “Made to Stick” is no silver bullet for getting ideas to stick, but it’s pretty damn close!

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China Shakes the World by James Kynge wins FT/Goldman Sachs Business Book of the Year award

I was wrong with my earlier prediction of The Long Tail wining the Financial Times and Goldman Sachs Business Book of the Year award. I thought Chris Anderson’s highly praised book The Long Tail was a lock for the award. I was wrong. This year’s winner was China Shakes the World by James Kynge. James Kynge (who lives in China) previously worked as the Beijing bureau chief for the Financial Times. China Shakes the World has been applauded for revealing the “complexity and scale” of what is happening in China. If you follow the business books industry you’ll notice the increasing frequency of releases on the subject of China’s (and India’s) rise. Add this one to the top of your list.

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Best Business Books of 2006

With 2006 coming to a close it’s time for the “Best of” business book lists to emerge from the various media outlets. Scanning the various lists confirms editors and readers alike agree that “The Long Tail” by Chris Anderson should be ranked as one of the top business books of 2006. My prediction (if it’s not obvious from the lists below) is that it will take home the Financial Times / Goldman Sachs Business Book of the Year Award. You can view the shortlist of books up for the award here. It seems like yesterday when titles such as “Freakonomics”, “Blink”, and “The World is Flat” populated these lists!

2006 Amazon.com Editors Business Book Picks

  1. The Long Tail: Why the Future of Business Is Selling Less of More
  2. Making Globalization Work
  3. Success Built To Last
  4. The Starfish and the Spider
  5. Knowledge and the Wealth Of Nations: A Story of Economic Discovery
  6. Origin of Wealth: Evolution, Complexity, and the Radical Remaking of Economics
  7. Stumbling on Happiness
  8. Mavericks at Work: Why the Most Original Minds in Business Win
  9. Changing Minds: The Art And Science of Changing Our Own And Other People’s Minds (Leadership for the Common Good)
  10. Setting the Table: The Transforming Power of Hospitality in Business

Top Selling Business Books in 2006 for Amazon.com

  1. Rule #1: The Simple Strategy for Successful Investing in Only 15 Minutes a Week!
  2. The Long Tail: Why the Future of Business Is Selling Less of More
  3. Hedgehogging
  4. Little Red Book of Sales Answers: 99.5 Real World Answers That Make Sense, Make Sales, and Make Money
  5. Why We Want You to be Rich: Two Men - One Message*
  6. The Automatic Millionaire Homeowner: A Powerful Plan to Finish Rich in Real Estate
  7. The 360 Degree Leader: Developing Your Influence from Anywhere in the Organization
  8. Silos, Politics and Turf Wars: A Leadership Fable About Destroying the Barriers That Turn Colleagues Into Competitors
  9. The Wal-Mart Effect: How the World’s Most Powerful Company Really Works–and How It’s Transforming the American Economy
  10. The Coming Economic Collapse: How You Can Thrive When Oil Costs $200 a Barrel

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Rafi Mohammed’s Pricing for Profit website

This past February BizBookTalk highlighted Rafi Mohammed’s book “The Art of Pricing”. In what could be considered the definitive guide on pricing, Rafi’’s book offers invaluable advice on creating the best pricing strategy for your product. The upside also being that this advice can be converted into actions on Monday morning.

In his inexhaustible effort to spread his knowledge on pricing, Rafi has created a website dedicated to his pricing strategies. He envisions this website will become the “hub of new pricing ideas” on the Internet. The site titled ‘Pricing for Profit’ offers rich content, an interactive value decoder that will help visitors find their right product price, and a blog which offers Rafi’s insights on pricing. Reads may find the most helpful section being the Pricing Q&A. This section provides answers to pricing questions which you would like Rafi’s advice on.

Check out the site at www.pricingforprofits.com

Crucial Confrontations by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan & Al Switzler

After an encounter with a coworker or family member have you ever resorted to silence while thinking, “That person WANTED to hurt my feelings!” Or maybe someone has made a comment that made your blood boil and set you fuming with rage. How did you handle difficult situations? Want to know an efficient way to resolve these conflicts?

The group of Patterson, Grenny, McMilan, and Switzler spells out an amazing method for handling such Crucial Confrontations. Patterson et al argue that poor confrontations happen all the time – but they do not have to be that way. And in case you’re pessimistic, their methodologies are based on over twenty years of research and first-hand experience with the world’s best confrontation and conversation holders.

Their methods boil down to a few key steps:

Work on Me First:
Figure out if the conversation is worth having, and if so, ask yourself, “Why would a reasonable person have said or done what he did?” You may start to understand the other person’s point of view a little better.

Confront with Safety:
The most CRUCIAL part of the process. People can’t be honest and open to change unless they feel safe – maintain a feeling of comfort throughout the confrontation and you’ll be halfway to success.

Stay Focused and Flexible:
Throughout a confrontation, the other person may bring up other issues or concerns. Be ready to field these, and, if necessary, to table current issues to discuss the new one. However, don’t forget the original problem.

Move to Action
Finally, there can be no change without a plan to monitor accountability. Provide clear and concise ways to follow up.

Learn to successfully handle crucial confrontations and you’ll be on your way to better relationships and business success! (For more info, check out the group’s website for some informative materials, including video demonstrations! — CrucialConfrontations.com)

We’re Looking For Passionate Readers!

The search is over! I’ve received a ton of interest for this opportunity and have selected 6 individuals to join the team. Expect some great things in the near future!

BizBookTalk is growing and we’re looking for 4 people who are interested in reviewing books. It’s a great opportunity for those who are passionate about business and reading. This opportunity includes:

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Anyone who is interested please send an email to brandon [at] bizbooktalk [dot] com. Please include either:

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The Cycle of Leadership by Noel M. Tichy

In today’s world, leaders are a dying breed. You don’t have to look far to see this as being true. Look at our government. Look at the colossal failures at major corporations (Enron, WorldCom, Tyco and Adelphia to name just a few).


Is it because everyone is out for #1 (aka themselves)? Or has management by deception and lies trumped the benefits of leading with integrity? Our organizations and schools have systematically failed to build leaders. It’s evident as many organizations have to look outside to hire senior management. Noel Tichy has a fix for this problem. Noel, a professor at the prestigious University of Michigan Business School and a former director at Crotonville GE Human Developing Center has developed the framework to build organizations that grow leaders. It’s highlighted in his book “The Cycle Of Leadership”. Although the books reach is aimed at the organizational leader there are many important points to take away:

  • Always be open to learning. Create your own opportunities, step outside your comfort zone. It doesn’t matter if you are entry level or CEO a leader is open to new ideas and opinions. Richard Branson one of the most successful individuals in the world practices this. Read Tom Peters blog post for more details.
  • Create your TPOV (Teachable Point Of View). Leaders need to have anywhere from 4-6 points to teach from. They need to be specific and easy to understand. Just because the format in which you present them is simple, it’s your duty to make these a part of the culture (which is the hard part).
  • Leverage Teachable Moments – Whenever you have the opportunity leverage current situations as teachable moments for employees (new guy at the company, transitioning to manager position) do so
  • Always remember the 80/20 rule -

    “80% of leadership development comes on the job and through life experience. Formal development experiences have the potential to deliver only about 20% of the knowledge and capabilities needed” The Cycle of Leadership

Check out Noel’s homepage to find out more information about the The Cycle of Leadership and other publications.

Don’t Always Trust Your Intuition

From time to time I come across some articles which I think are worth a read. This months HBS Working Knowledge has published an article titled “When Not to Trust Your Gut” by Max H. Bazerman and Deepak Malhotra. The article discusses when not to use your intuition when making decisions. We can find our leaders at the highest level of government (President Bush) and corporations basing major decisions on intuition. Bazerman and Malhotra explain the two systems of thought patterns:

“System 1 thought describes our intuition: quick, automatic, effortless, and influenced by emotion. By comparison, System 2 thought is slower, more conscious, effortful, and logical.”

Although the article leans towards negotiation tactics, it lesson applies to all areas in life. Although some intuition shall play in your decision making, you should strive to base the decision from your System 2 thinking and not one System 1.

How To Spot a Liar by Gregory Hartley, Maryann Karinch

Have you ever had the feeling that someone was lying to you? I’m sure
you have. I usually get that feeling when I’m at the car dealership or
when people post their comments about my picture on www.hotornot.com.
If only there were ways to elicit the truth out of people and catch
them in their lies! If only there were former military interrogators
who would write books about this very topic! But there is, I’m not
lying to you!


Consider your days of being lied to over. ‘How to Spot a Liar’ by Gregory Hartley and Maryann Karinch have written a book to give you the upper hand against the liars of the world. Gregory, who was a military interrogator for 16 years, used the very techniques he discusses in the book. We learn the various reasons why people don’t tell the truth, the tools to detect lies and obtain the truth, and the various ways to apply these techniques in your own life.

After reading the book, you’ll be more confident in your ability to extract the truth from your daily interaction with others. Whether it’s a co-worker telling you they don’t know where your mouse pad went, or the mailman saying he never saw the package from Omaha Steaks come in, you’ll be better prepared to spot lies from now on!